March 21, 2014

Know yourself

After graduation, people have started to move to different cities. When we had dinner together, which probably would be the last chance with some people, discussions about the future were never avoided, full of hope but also confusion. I suddenly had an idea to write this blog.
It is kind of a summary of all the conversations I had with friends. And I have found the most important thing we discussed is: knowing yourself.
This is an old topic, but I hope it will provide you with some inspiration.
You think you know yourself
More and more people start to search from the bottom of their heart. Knowing yourself is like putting yourself on a balance scale. Choosing a weight that is too heavy is just like you wanting to achieve something with ambition, however, this task might overweigh your capability. Choosing a weight, which is too light is like you already having some advantage while underestimating yourself.
But the reality is more complicated. That is because by knowing yourself you gain internal satisfaction, but there are too many variables in this process. State of mind is one of them. If you set a high goal that is too high, you become frustrated after failure over and over again and you might even lose self-confidence. Former CEO of GE, Jack Welch, once said, if he had gone to an Ivy League school, he might not have the confidence he has today.
Actually, the self you know, in different situations and environment, could turn out to be a different person. A very simple example is international students finding themselves to be more introverted in a foreign country.
The process of knowing yourself is dynamic. Accept the current arrangement in your life, and from this starting point, analyze yourself. I don't agree with the idea of "Fight[ing] until you know how awesome you are". On the contrary, I agree with the famous Chinese news presenter Ruiying Li, "If you spend more than half of your time on a job, you are not meant for that".
Finding a proper position for yourself is more important, no matter how different it is from what you thought and what is required by society.
Create opportunities
There are lots of things that we want to achieve in our lifetime, but usually we can only achieve some of them.
Even if you could not reach your goal temporarily, the first thing you could be sure is that you are still very lucky to know what you want and what you are good at. However, due to the objective reasons, maybe you have to give up something, achieve other things first and reach your goal in the long term. As an international student, this is very important because it is much more difficult to reach your goals in a different culture.
Polish yourself and wait for opportunities at the same time.
I have to admit that because of the problem of visa, international students don't have much time to wait. Preparing early, developing the right values and using the right methodology are the key.
I like the self-introduction from Ka-shing Li. He said "Every night he reads before going to bed. Knowledge might not necessarily increase your wealth, but increases the opportunity. It is the best way that you create opportunity."
If you are very clear about your goal but haven’t reached it yet, creating opportunities for yourself is the only solution.
Take Some Risk
There is a common sense in the financial world, the more risk you take, the more return you possibly get. Life is also like this.
I have a good friend. To get into the dream company, she only applied for this company, only networked with the people from this company and prepared the interview for this company. In the end, she got the offer. Certainly there is risk involved. If she had failed, she could have missed the job searching opportunity and have had to start from scratch again.
Knowing yourself includes knowing your risk aversion. This is also a dynamic process. When you achieve more, you have more tolerance for risk, the more confident you will be, which means you will also perform better under pressure.

‘Stepping out of your comfort zone’ is advocated in American culture. This is also a way of taking risk. But I think we should take it dialectically. If you have a high tolerance for risk, it is better for you to try. But if you are risk averse, pushing yourself too much will hurt your confidence.
Don't envy what someone has, because he also bears more risk. Be responsible for yourself.
Among globalization, I am grateful for the opportunities the world brings to our generation. However, it raises new challenges for us. To make a decision that we will not regret, we need to know ourselves more clearly and have a firmer determination.

I am from China and have been in Cleveland for one year. I love it here, although there have been a lot of surprises. I will write about my life, including the joy and frustration that comes with getting my Masters of Science in Management - Finance degree at Weatherhead School of Management and with living in America.
Hope you can get a little inspiration from my story and make your life even more wonderful here!

March 7, 2014

Spring break in Cleveland

Spring break is here!  If you have an adventurous trip planned to some warm location, I’m happy for you, really.  You’re getting a much deserved break from this weather.  Those of us who are staying in Cleveland might be the tiniest bit jealous but only a bit – there’s no shortage of fun things to do here.  When school resumes and everyone’s first question is, “what did you do over break?” you want to have a great answer, right?  With some extra time on your hands, you can go explore some of the things that make Cleveland a great place to be.

Start by browsing this page for amazing student deals.  If you haven’t been to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, you have to check it out.  Music lovers: give yourselves plenty of time to explore the museum; it’s a gold mine of rock and roll history.  I also highly recommend a trip to MOCA.  It’s right on campus and the building itself, inside and out, is a piece of art.  As I’ve mentioned before, Cleveland is so lucky to have Playhouse Square.  Intriguing upcoming shows that caught my eye: Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat and the murder mystery Deathtrap. Basketball fans get a bonus for spring break: the MAC Men's and Women’s Tournaments are in town.  And there’s the Cleveland Auto Show at the IX Center near Cleveland Hopkins Airport.  It’s well worth the drive if you have an eye for shiny new cars.  If you don’t feel like window shopping for a new car, maybe you’d enjoy a day trip to the outlet malls.  The closest are Lodi Station Outlets and Aurora Farms, but friends tell me Grove City is worth the trip.

Last but not least (though not technically part of spring break) is the St. Patrick’s Day parade:  If you don’t have afternoon classes on Monday, March 17th, don some green apparel and head downtown.  It will be crowded and it may be cold, but you’ll probably be having so much fun you won’t notice!  If the parade doesn’t fit your schedule or your style, at least wear some green.  Otherwise, watch out! According to tradition, friends are allowed to pinch you if you’re not wearing green.  So, with that in mind, you may want to pick up something green on your trip to the outlets.


I’m a Cleveland native who loves my city, and I am thrilled to be sharing it with you. I have my favorite haunts and activities, and I’m always learning about new places around town. The more I explore, the more I know that if I’m bored, it’s my own fault! I hope my experiences can help you discover your own favorite things about Cleveland.